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How to Discipline a Maine Coon Cat: 13 Expert Tips


May 10, 2023
Playful polydactyl Maine Coon Cat


Playful polydactyl Maine Coon Cat

Intelligent and affectionate, Maine Coons are usually fairly easy to train due to their smarts and eagerness to please. Of course, every cat has their own personality, so it’s still possible for them to develop behavioral issues. Gentle, firm, and consistent discipline can help correct any unwanted behaviors from your Maine Coon. Punishment can be a cruel way to handle simple problems, so your goal should be to discipline them for the good of you both without resorting to inappropriate methods such as yelling or hitting. Here are 12 ways to handle your cat’s antics, starting with what’s causing them in the first place and 2 things you should never do.


The 12 Tips to Discipline a Maine Coon Cat

1. Find Out What’s Causing Their Behavior

Try to pinpoint exactly when your Maine Coon developed their destructive habits. If they’re a kitten, their behavior may simply be a part of their growing phase. While you’ll still need to discipline them, you shouldn’t worry too much since kittens have a tendency to be rascally. If an adult cat suddenly changes their tune, however, you should thoroughly examine them for any signs of illness or injury. 

maine coon cat in pain
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2. Make Sure Their Needs Are Met

A sudden change in behavior could signify that they have a physical or emotional need that wasn’t satisfied. Did your normally benign cat turn naughty after you left for vacation? Maybe they need a little more TLC. Is there a new stressor in their life, such as a new pet? Cats generally despise change and need a little more attention during transition seasons to reassure them of your undying love and affection. Their new behavior could be caused by something as simple as changing the location of the litter box or forgetting to feed them breakfast.

3. Establish the Rules

Common sense doesn’t make sense to your cat. You really can’t be angry at them for digging in the potted plant if you haven’t told them to stay away. Since consistency is key to success, you’ll need to make sure everyone in your household is on the same page about the rules for your cat. For the rules to be effective, everyone must take equal responsibility in enforcing them.

4. Develop Keywords or Actions

Your cat needs a code word or symbol that means stop. Find a simple word, such as “stop” or “no,” that you’ll say every time. Alternatively, you can use an action, such as clapping your hands loudly, or couple the action with the keyword. Whatever you decide, do the same thing every time, and try to avoid speaking the word or performing the action for anything else so they aren’t confused.   

Orange Tabby Maine Coon
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5. Speak Firmly

Yelling at your cat isn’t effective because it can scare them, which makes you an unsafe person. However, speaking their code word with authority and clarity helps effectively communicate that what they’re doing is wrong, and they should cut it out.

6. Stay Consistent

It’s important to discipline your cat every time they repeat unwanted behavior. This speeds up the learning process and reminds them that what they’re doing isn’t good. Maine Coons are smart creatures who will figure it out quickly—as long as you’re consistent—which is another reason why all household members need to know and enforce the rules.

7. Put Them in a Brief Time Out

Cats are territorial animals who hate confinement, so you’ll want to make sure their time out corner is large enough so they don’t feel trapped. Remember, the goal is discipline, not punishment. Giving them time to cool off and refocus should not only curb their unwanted behavior, but also decrease the risk of them acting aggressively towards you, which they might be tempted to do since they can’t get what they want.

maine coon calico cat resting and crossing paws
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8. Create Something Constructive for Them to Do

Cats are like toddlers. Once they set their eyes on something, it can be difficult for them to break away unless you intervene. If your cat won’t stop swatting at your new decorations, you’ll probably need to supply them with an alternative activity, such as a catnip toy or treat puzzle.

9. Give Them Credit for Their Good Behavior

Of course, you should always recognize the many good things your cat does. Most cats have a love language that depends on their personality. Figure out whether they’re more motivated by toys, affection, or food, and treat them accordingly.

10. Recognize Signs of Distress and Take Them to the Vet If the Problem Persists Without Cause

Unusual behaviors such as yowling, hiding, or limping can indicate that your Maine Coon has a medical issue. You should always call your vet anytime you notice any sudden changes in behavior, since this can be the sign of a medical emergency. Even if there are no drastic developments, you should still consider taking them in for a wellness visit if behavioral issues arise and continue for a while without any known cause. Stress can actually cause urinary tract infections in felines, and they might need antibiotics to recover properly.

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11. Consult a Cat Trainer

Ask your vet for recommendations or use the internet to search for a certified cat trainer in your area. They’ll be able to give you more tips and tricks and might be available to come to your house for a one-on-one training session.


The 2 Things You Shouldn’t Do When Training Your Maine Coon

12. Yell or Hit Your Cat

While some people may claim such methods are an effective way to discipline your cat, it can easily lead to animal abuse. Cats are sensitive creatures—physically and emotionally—and won’t tolerate such behavior. Hitting or yelling at your cat will either cause them to cower in fear, or react aggressively, which can ruin your relationship and cause permanent damage.

13. Avoid Addressing the Problem

You definitely don’t need to overreact to the issue by hitting or yelling at your cat. However, simply not addressing the problem can lead to a host of problems, including worsening behavior and the development of other unpleasant shenanigans. Eventually, your unruly cat will rule your roost. Their reign can make your life miserable and may even press you into a rehoming situation, which should ideally be avoided for you and your cat’s sake.



Patient and consistent training can transform even the most rascally Maine Coon into an obedient and gentle pet. Spending ample time with your cat fulfills their need for companionship and can help you quickly notice if something seems out of the ordinary. Determining the cause of their behavior will let you know whether you need to make some lifestyle adjustments, take them to the vet, or simply stay consistent with your training. Remember, the goal of disciplining your cat should never be to punish them or take revenge on them for doing wrong—even if they’ve ruined your carpet or killed your houseplant. Instead, you’ll want to correct their behavior for the well-being of both of you.

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